teen pregnancy! please help!?

Accalia · 07-03-2010, 12:05 AM

I think that you shad buy a puppy and when you graduate you can ave children.
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Singinganddancing · 07-05-2010, 12:05 AM

I would NOT do it. Attention or not, someone does NOT go out and get pregnant cause they want attention. If you want someone to love and hold get a pet. That usually works for some Pol. But DO NOT go out and get pregnant, it's not as fun as u think it is. Instead of sleeping at night you'll be waking up every few hours to fed, change, or rock a screaming infant. And you won't be able to go out with your friends anymore cause you'll have an infant to take care of. And most guys that are looking for a relationship won't want one with you if you've got a baby to tend to all the time. Face it your life will be OVER and no one will feel bad for you especially if you did it cause you didn't feel like you were getting enough attention. Why don't you talk to you parents about the whole not getting enough attention thing and maybe they can help you to feel more loved by doing something with you once a week, just you and them. That'll totally be better than having to throw your life away to a baby that you weren't ready for to begin with. I hope this helps Hun. And PLEASE think before you do anything. Don't make any rash decisions especially if your mad or upset.

Jordan D · 07-09-2010, 12:05 AM

I suggest that you try out one of those real make believe baby dolls that they give you in school for sex education. Try that out for about two weeks, see how your life will change and then you will rethink where you are in life.
Rather play, have fun, enjoy life and use every opportunity that comes your way!

You will still be able to do that later in your life when you have a baby when you are older, but you will be much better equipped.

Remember the following:
1. When you have a baby it is not like a pair of shoes that you can put in the closet until you want to wear it again.
2. Whomever the father of your baby will be, he will be part of your life forever
3. Babies are not like puppies that can just drink any milk or eat any tinned food... they take real money and real effort to care for, you need a stable income!

I don't think that you should think that it is off limits to ever have a baby, just NOT NOW (or until you are grown up enough to make a realistic and not selfish choice.

Enjoy your life, have fun, and find piece in the fact that everything that you are doing from today onwards, every choice and every action will prepare you to one day be a great mom.

Lt. Limbless · 07-11-2010, 12:05 AM

I no how you feel i have always wanted a baby and so has my boyfriend, but he has been kicked out of school which means he will always be there to look after the baby and i could go back to school. i think you should wait until you have finished school, met someone you love and then try. Its a bit rich coming from someone the same age and i have already been trying for baby for 6 months. i would also think about what you want because you could end up changing your mind too late. Hope This Helps.

Terrance · 07-12-2010, 12:05 AM

Everybody wants someone 2 love them no matter what

and a baby will let u take care of it and it will always need u. I see where your coming from, but you have to wait and experience things in life that will in the long run make you an amazing mother when the time is right. You have so much to do before settling down 2 have a baby...homecoming, graduation, college graduation, trips, meeting the person u want to to spend the rest of Ur life with ...you should wait so that your baby has a great, caring mommy and daddy...in a few years, when the time is right I'm sure I'll have a gorgeous family with someone you love

Hope I helped

sidestepper11 · 07-15-2010, 12:05 AM

dint do it, i always thought like that too, and now I'm 16 and pregnant. & yeah its not easy because the second you find out your pregnant your gnaw get scared because your gnaw realize how much responsibilities your going to have, luckily i got pregnant with a guy i know I'm going to be with forever and he loves his child and its not even born, just wait until you graduate at least because once you get pregnant you have no patience with anything and you will hate morning and wouldn't want to go to school everyday TRUST ME. I'm trying my best to graduate right now and so is my boyfriend because we go to the same school. When I'm 18 i have to move out of my house because my parents said so and i dont even have a job. its hard, just wait..

aamandajm · 07-20-2010, 12:05 AM

Hello

I am 15 and currently about 6 weeks pregnant. I get a check-up soon. Well I admit everything is harder than you could think. So far everything has been one wild time. I know you might think it will all be good but I have just managed to get out of depression but right now it's being very tough to stay on top of things. I am doing my best. But it is possible to graduate from school and everything due to how advanced things are these days. Like you can do schooling on line and stuff now these days. Just think about this very carefully and if you do get pregnant make sure that its with someone you love and want to be with not just a one night stand.. Just think about everything in great detail down to every detail. x