03-05-2009, 12:25 AM
sexual abuse is one of the most difficult scars to get rid of especially child abuse,and when"we"are finally able to tell someone about it it is as if a ton of bricks have been lifted from us.I to have faced this problem , the problem of accepting the fact that what happened was not my fault,it happened , but it became a part of who i wa even as a child,along with the physical abuse there is almost always some form of brainwashing of the child.something to convince the child that if they tell someone something bad will happen to them or someone they care about.along with sexual abuse there is FEAR, that by itself is an ugly place to be in.i am 56yrs old and kept the secret from comming out until my mother died in 2002.because of the shame it would bring to her.there are still many secrets i hold about this kind of thing in my life , it was as much an everyday thing a sgetting up to go to the bathroom.but the real truth is that if we don't share with others about this kind of thing then we to become part of the deciet that hurt us.and we need to tell others to support others facing this problem. it is truely in the having someone there who knows how you feel, exactly how you feel this is where the healing come from in helping other over the bridges we have already crossed ,may God Bless and keep you.PS PRAYER always helps
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