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[LINDSEEEEY!]

I am definitely not going to judge you but personally I think you should graduate first and then decide what you want to do with your life and future. I would hope you would want your child to have a great life. I am only 21 and am 16 weeks pregnant with my first baby but my fiance and I talked about things before be tried to have this baby and I have already gone to college and graduated. I think you should talk to someone about how your feeling. I'm here to talk if you want. Feel free to send me a message!

[b_senthilbe]

Very stupid idea.

You wouldn't be able to support a baby if you're pregnant. Just think about it. You still under your parents roof and dependent on them.
How are you planning to provide for a baby? Don't said mommy and daddy will be responsible paying for my child. That's wrong and selfish. It's your baby, your responsible not them.

Kid, just get a puppy instead. You can't even drive or support yourself yet.

-Maybe you should quit posting this question up and get some help.

[vnbmuliyala]

I'm 31 weeks pregnant and I'm 22. I am glad Ive waited till this age to have one, however if i hadn't been stupid enough to not use contraception, i would have waited even longer. threes no rush for children. live Ur life 1st.

[giggles94pink]

I agree. Get a puppy. But get one that will stay small that way you can take it everywhere. its a lot better then not enjoying your teenage years.

[peachypie]

It sounds like you have a lot of other problems. Please know that a baby won't solve these problems. You probably feel this way because if you have a baby you will feel needed, and therefore will get a confidence boost. You should find good friends and bond with them and your family so that you can feel valued without a child. But bear in mind that a baby is not just a thing but a person, just like you. At 14, are you really ready for that responsibility? This also may seem like a good way for you to get attention but I can assure you you'd be getting yourself in for much more than just attention, and not in a good way.
Try seeking some help for your depression. Perhaps some counsel ling and therapy, and maybe pick up a hobby - something that makes you feel good and relax - so that you can forget about your problems for a while.

[eppkai]

I also wanted a baby when I was in high school. Nearly every girl at high school wants to get pregnant, and have a baby but they never admit. I think this is more like an instinct. Our ancestors would have babies at their teenage years, so this may be the reason why you want one. So don't feel awkward its pretty normal!

[Kwong]

U need counseling ASAP!!!!! U want a baby? Honey Ur a baby itself. Get a baby pet that u can raise on Ur own, CZ right now Sweet, i know u cant even support itself.

[icandynbama]

I am a Christian too and the first thing I have to say is, that it is very unmoral of you to have a baby at this age. You also have to put into play the baby's life itself...that is the ultimate thing. If you have a baby at this age, the baby will have a very unhappy life and suffer very much so. Would you really want to do that to your own child? And it will also DESTROY your life completely at this age. You probably wont be able to go to high school and be forced to drop out because you have to take care of the baby, you wont be able to play any sports any more for at least 9 months (until you have it), you wont be able to get into a good college, it will put SOpooch stress on you in your life, people may think of you differently, you wount be able to hang out with your friends much anymore after you have it, your social life will basically come to a seize, and many many more things that could effect you and the baby's life. And plus, you are 14 and wont be able to find a job because you are under the legal limit and nobody is going to hire a pregnant teenager. And since you wont be able to get a job, you will force your parents to come up with the money to support YOUR child when they are most likely struggling to support you due to the "depression" that we are in. And if your in a depressive state, then maybe you should talk to your parents about your depression problems and they will take you to a phyciotrist to help you out. But overall, I would STRONGLY advise you NOT to have a baby. I would wait until your AT LEAST in your 20s.

[Karli]

You are smart to not want to have a baby. So my advice don't have sex. Teen sex is really not even pleasurable for a women. Teenage boys are selfish and they just wanna get off and don't care if the please girl or not. Women cannot even organism until they are about 20. Honestly you are way to young for sex and you can't even enjoy yet so why even risk pregnancy and STDs it just isn't worth it.