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01-14-2010, 12:14 AM
Chances are he was misdiagnosed, as even mental health professionals have difficulty distinguishing between the 2 disorders. The deciding factor can often be the response to medications, mood stabilizers, anti psychotics, etc. Bipolars tend to be responsive to them, but medications are often ineffective with BPD. "every time i try to leave he threatens suicide" is a known BPD trait. Unfortunately, they both have high suicide rates. See WNW.wrongdiagnosis.com
Consult a clinical psychologist, who believes in the use of the minimum amount of medications necessary. Because they don't prescribe, they are considerably less likely to be targeted by the sales reps from "BIG PHARMA". Ensure that you get a written copy of any tests performed (they may retire, or move, etc.). Go to whoever is recommended for the prescription of any necessary medications.
View http://your-mental-health.8m.com/blank_25.html about bipolar disorder, then page C. BPD is addressed on pages G, and X. Self harm/cutting; see pages 1, and A. Print for him.
I suggest that he gets re diagnosed, and undertakes a course in DBT, as shown, if BPD. Get appropriate literature for both of you, after the new diagnosis. Print relevant pages from 8m.com for him.
The best time to leave would be after he is stabilised, but only he is responsible for his actions, so you can leave anytime with a clear conscience. Suicide threats are emotional blackmail.
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