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Default Teen pregnancy question! Please Help!? - 04-16-2010, 12:58 AM

I am 16. There was alto going on with my family where I didn't feel love so me and my boyfriend had sex.Unprotected, but he pulled out. I always get scares like this, but this time it's a little scarier. Signs are starting to come. Im 2 weeks late on my cycle. I might not be, but if I am, Im going to have to get an abortion. I dint want to, Id want to have my baby and have a happy life with my boyfriend and my child. But that wont be the case. Not at all. My family will disown me. If Im pregnant I just want to get a quiet abortion and move on with my life, and not bring my family into it.
SO he res my question(s):
When can I have an abortion without parental consent?
How do I tell my mom Im pregnant, if I am?
Are there any ways to have natural abortions?

PLEASE DONT BE RUDE GUYS. Im having it rough already as it is. I just need a little advice. I dint know what to do...
Thanks guys for the encouraging words. A process like this can make you feel so alone. I've decided to take a test this friday, which would make me 3 weeks late, and if I am then I will keep my baby. My boyfriend already wants to keep it if I am.Thanks.
   
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Default 04-17-2010, 12:58 AM

Oh goodness,
It would be so sinful to have an abortion,
Your killing someone, KILLING.
But, that's not what you want to here,
No, They wont let you have any abortions/MURDERINGS without a parents consent, if your a minor, Which you are.
So he res how you tell your parents, Get a piece of paper, Write "Im pregnant, IM thinking of KILLING it," Then make a paper airplane, and fly it to them.
But lets be realistic, You can get an ADOPTION. Right when you have the baby, social services can take it!
Get an adoption.; Please.
   
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Default 04-18-2010, 12:58 AM

In most states you can. Just ignore people who lash out at you for this, their reasoning and logic is off-base just ignore them.

Google Family Planning Clinic and your zip code or teen pregnancy and your zip code and some area clinics should pop up. Make an appointment to get a pregnancy test done, most of them are free. And they will guide you on where to go if you want to get an abortion and they dint judge.

Dont tell your mother if you dint want to!!! if you think it will cause problems then dint. Its really not as dramatic as it seems. Just go ahead and get some info and they might have counselors you can talk to.
   
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Default 04-19-2010, 12:58 AM

Carry the baby to term, TRY to make it work, if it doesn't give it up for adoption.

DO NOT KILL AN INNOCENT BABY.
   
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Default 04-20-2010, 12:58 AM

I know its rough for you but how do you think the poor baby will feel when you tear it apart? I just think its sad to be so cold in your hear. Ok your family will disown you? Well when my mom found out I was pregnant she said to get a abortion everyday or she will kick me out and never speak to me. If I believe in something I go 100% behind it and I believe in life not murder so I told her that I will never ever do that to myself and the poor unborn child. Abortion crossed my mind because I have been so devastated on how she treated me but now that I seen my child on the ultrasound I feel horrible of thinking of such a thing.
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-You need parental consent
-Say it straight up its no big deal since you're killing the baby anyway right?
-Natural abortions are dangerous for your health but go for it
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You're the kind of teen that can be used for a stereotype that people use to judge teen mothers even those who do good. Not all of us had willing sex and were so damn irresponsible.
   
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Default 04-23-2010, 12:58 AM

I understand i was 16 when i had my daughter I'm 30 now. talk to Simone you love who loves you. Don't get an abortion I know it's scary but an abortion isn't the answer and if you don't feel like you could raise your baby there are many people who would ( I have friend who have tried for years to have a baby so I know). Your mom might surprise you, mine did. I'll be thinking of you.
   
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Default 04-28-2010, 12:58 AM

Wow Ur stupid why don't you go fall down some stairs. I'm pregnant granted I'm 20 but I could care less what my family thought. You are gonna feel so bad that you killed your child but hopefully you learned a lesson through all this. If your gonna have sex which you shouldn't CZ your 16 but you should at least use a condom. Pulling out doesn't mean anything. There's still Prue cum. And also an abortion can mess up your chances of having a baby in the future. And I don't think there us a place where they will let a minor get an abortion without a parent or guardian.
   
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Default 05-01-2010, 12:58 AM

You "always" have scares like this? That probably means you should change something...

Anyway, if you're wanting to keep the child, how will you feel about aborting him or her within a few years? Will you be able to get over it? Or will you regret it? This isn't a light decision. It may bother you for years.

A "natural" abortion doesn't exist. An actual abortion ranges from $200 to $1000. This is something that you really need to talk to your parents about.

In the future... the pull out method doesn't work. At all. You can still get pregnant from the Prue-ejaculate fluid.
   
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Default 05-03-2010, 12:58 AM

You say if you have a baby, you're parents will disown you. Have you not realized that if you have an abortion- you are disowning your own child? Even worse, you are killing a precious life. This baby didn't ask to come into this world, and the baby certainly didn't ask on being killed.
A pregnancy can be an inconvenience, and that's why some women turn to aborting. But can't a toddler when they throw a tantrum? Can't a teenager when they rebel? Can't ANYBODY be an inconvenience to someone as some point? But do we go and just say "You know what! Forget you! I'm done with you and all these inconvenience you've caused me! I'm going to put a suction cup on your head, rip out your brains, tear your vital organs out of your body with medical scissors and throw you in a dumpster for your body to rot in. All because you are just too inconvenient." No. That's not right! But that's what abortion is.
Please, take the time to watch these videos.
http://www.mixx.com/videos/10195861/youtube_for_women_who_are_considering_an_abortion_ pro_life_video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2l1-kvKomg
   
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Default 05-04-2010, 12:58 AM

If you think about aborting an innocent life
then why don't you just stop having sex?
Why do you ask for advice on how to tell your mom if you
are planing to get an abortion without parental consent?
Natural abortion is dangerous and you could end up killing yourself.
Next time, do yourself a favor and stop having unprotected sex.
   
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