12-28-2008, 07:47 PM
Well I suppose if you are still dating, you should offer to rent a movie and watch it at home, this is always a good pretense as it allows you to be in a comfortable surroundings. Then simply start kissing him, and continue kissing him. You don't need to go porno and meet him at the door buck naked and blow him right where he stands, that is not the point. But start by just making out, making out generally leads to a bit of caressing, hugging, touching rubbing, etc. Be prepared, where the appropriate clothing. Things that will not slow your progress when things are getting hot. Start out slow but make sure you stay focused. Slowly it will get to a situation where he is going to move his hand somewhere under you shirt or clothes so don't be surprised or hesitant. Just go with it. But make sure it is mutual. So if you lose your shirt, so should he. Continue kissing all during this process and stay close (face to face). Last thing you want, is to stop and start looking each other over. That can never be a good thing while in the middle of making out. Make sure you have handy protection and whatever you may need. Just be safe. You don't need to be overly agressive, just follow these steps and you will move your relationship forward. After the first time, it always gets more casual and natural. And before you know it you are closer than before. However, if you are very young, I suggest you wait as the last thing you want is to take that step forward. You will become closer, but life also gets more complicated. I can't tell you how many of my friends wished they would have waited longer.
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