05-09-2011, 06:04 PM
OMG! Wait until you're married. Trust me, you'll regret it if you start before hand. Think of it this way, do you want to rob your spouse of that gift. Also, do you want to be robbed of that same gift from your spouse.
It's hard to think about it in those terms because it seems like so far away. I know, life seems like it's just creeping by at a snail's pace and other kids seem to be in a rush to grow up as fast as they can. Here's your chance to differentiate yourself and hold firm to your innocence for as long as you can. Because once you've lost that, there's not a whole lot left.
And just because sex is scientifically "natural and healthy", it doesn't mean it's proper behavior. Then there are the moral implications as well. Plus, once you start, you won't be able to stop. You'll be a slave to that behavior in every future relationship. Those who say that can't happen, are just not clinically realistic. It does and it will.
From personal experience, it can negatively impact your "natural and healthy" intimate relationship with your future spouse. Unless, of course, you're selfish and could care less about anyone else, other than yourself. It's healthy to be curious, but remember, curiosity killed the cat.
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