My wife has Lupus. She is always depressed. Has anxiety and is distrustful. How the f

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My wife has Lupus. She is always depressed. Has anxiety and is distrustful. How the fuck do i make her happy?

stallion1948_lloyd · 03-23-2010, 06:43 PM

get her put on medication and sweet talk her.

Psionyx · 03-27-2010, 06:43 PM

be so corny its funny. love her so much she has no choice but to be happy. it takes alto of effort on your part. at first she will be pussy about it but will come around. good luck and the cornier the better.

froggsfriend · 03-30-2010, 06:43 PM

Just be supportive. She is going through a tough time and sometimes ill people become bitter because of their situation. Just tell her that you are there with her and will always be there for her. She is your wife and you are in it for the long run. She needs to know that you are going to be there for her and not leave her to deal with her illness alone.

Blue · 04-01-2010, 06:43 PM

It's never Lupus.

Panda · 04-05-2010, 06:43 PM

God bless u for your good will to make your wife happy...But you made me laugh by the way you put it down. I suggest you find in the Internet a place or phone number to contact so that not only your wife but you also can get help. I believe that is important for you to be at your best so that u can give her what she needs and also so that u wont go crazy on this hole thing you know.God help you every step.

run2dem · 04-06-2010, 06:43 PM

There certainly ARE melds. for BOTH of her "disorders" which readily can be gotten by your own family Dr. I would make an apt. for her, tell the Dr. what she's going Thur, & he can put her on these melds. that w/completely take care of these two issues for you very easily. There is NO reason for both of you to have to suffer unnecessarily when it can be "fixed" by just a Dr. apt. Make one as soon as you can, & get this taken care of. I feel you'll BOTH benefit from it, & it's sure worth it. I'm also on melds. for BOTH her issues, so I KNOW they ARE available, I KNOW they DO work fine... Best to you...

embroidery fan · 04-07-2010, 06:43 PM

you cant, your impotent, otherwise you could fuck the sickness out of her

ayumi · 04-10-2010, 06:43 PM

You can't, but you can try being more supportive.

chachiincharge · 04-12-2010, 06:43 PM

what a sweet question that you care. i am touched.

you could go ogle her condition and really really educate yourselves about this so she does not have so much anxiety about it. this may be fear that her life is shortened or that she is different from others.

a support group she could join could help her. perhaps you could ferret one out for her.

your reassurance that it will all be OK.

is she taking vitamins and eating right for her condition ? sometimes a homeopathic doctor can give you alternative information that some swear by with these autoimmune illnesses.

marriage counseling, i mean it, so both of you learn how to give what the other needs.

as i said, i am touched that you care about your wife. high 5 to you.