03-12-2010, 10:28 PM
Mate, sounds like you should train your GF!
I know that seems a bit sexist but what I want to say by this is that you should help her perceive you in an attractive way. To keep that spark lit. The majority of guys get comfortable in a relationship and transform into a wuss while thinking you're making her happy by saying yes to everything and asking her all the time where she wants to go to lunch and being overly complaisant.
Most women are drawn to MEN. They like initiative and like to be led. For example don't tell her "Wanna go to the cinema?" Instead tell her... "I'm going to go to the cinema, you want to go?". So you're communicating "I'm going whether you come or not anyway". Here's another example, don't tell her "where do you wanna go for breakfast?", instead tell her "I feel like Mexican food, let's go get something to eat". I'm not saying force her to eat only where you like, if she doesn't like that kind of food she'll say something about it and you can then offer another alternative, but the important thing is that you showed initiative.
Here's where I learn this kind of stuff...
God bless!
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