[FRANK H]

I had anal with a girl i now suspect HIV positive, i had a condom on, she also gave me oral sex a few times, its been a couple months and now i have been coughing up Flem for 3 weeks, i had a fever really bad for 2 days, i keep coughing, is this a sign that I'm infected? the chick says her parents had HIV but she was born without but i dint believe her now.

[diamondjim]

possible

[Mibble]

Get tested NOW, go to a hospital TODAY.

[Concludent.]

shit you should see a doctor. if her mom was HIV positive when she was born threes a good chance she might have it.

[gomzi]

First of all, you aren't exhibiting symptoms of HIV so don't worry about that.

However, anal sex is a very high risk activity...but you were using a condom so that significantly lowers your risk. You CAN get HIV from oral sex, but it is a lot less likely to get it that way than to get it by vaginal or anal sex.

Long story short, yes it is possible that you have HIV. But, there is also a strong possibility that you don't. Wait 3 months and go have a test. I hope you come back negative and that you make better decisions in the future

[geekangel]

U should go ask a doctor or something, CZ there are lots of diseases that have the same symptoms...

[maruchanin]

best to get tested so u know for sure, but u have to wait 3 months from the time u could have been exposed to the HIV or else the test might give u a false negative.

[Falling to pieces]

I don't think you ought to get too worked up, but you'd better get to the doctor ASAP. But then again, March is cold/cough month.

[Ballzy]

If you wore a condom you are probably safe as long as this is the truth. As for the oral sex as long as you were the one receiving the oral sex you are fine. HIV has to be transferred by blood or body fluid so as long as you wore a condom you are fine. Saliva does not contain the HIV virus unless the person has a bleeding sore in their mouth and you have an open cut that is exposed to the bloody saliva. It is very possible and common for a baby to be born to parents with HIV and be born HIV free because the baby makes their own blood and is protected from the mothers blood through many miracles of nature and can be born HIV free as long as Mom seeks appropriate medical support and treatment during her pregnancy and birth. It does sound like you have pneumonia though and you should probably go get on some antibiotics before it gets worse. Good luck!