[SMILEYGIRL]

Just a week ago I had to put my dog of 16 yrs to rest. I know he is happy in dog heaven and not in pain anymore. But it was so hard, since I had to make the choice to take him to the vet. I wish he was back in ways. I know time will heal, it's a little easier than a week ago. I still have another pup, she is 4 1/2 yrs..and I know she will help me. I am making a scrapbook of my late dog for memories.Any help to work on dealing with my grief?Well.don't laugh..His name was"Muffin"...he looked like a little muffin as a puppy. He was Llasa Poo (Llasa Apso&Poodle).Thanks for your support in this tough time.

[imeahgila]

Post your dog's name and I will remember him. Which breed was he?Best way is to let people remember him.Also, be happy when you take extra care of your pup in memory of your other one.

[Cherie W]

I had to go through the same thing feb 2005 give yourself time to heal and then get a new puppy so you have a new friend to love. We got a yellow lab who is now a year and the love of my life.

[call me anon]

I'm in my mid 40's, and when I had to put my dog Buforddown (he had cancer, no cure) I swear I cried for 3 soliddays. I even missed work because I couldn't quit crying.Dogs give unconditional love. They are always glad to seeyou. They never talk naughty to you or slam a door in yourface (unlike my son when he was a teen). So, go ahead andcry. It will get better, but every now and then, I stillmiss my Boo Boo.

[Sue W]

I'm so sorry to hear your sad new. It is always devistating to loose a much loved pet. They give us so much joy while they are with us. Try planting a remember tree or a flower garden as a living reminder of your dear pet. Spending lots of time with your other dog will help you both. I am sure she is missing him too. Your scrap book is a lovely idea. Often talking about it can help to get the sad feelings out of your system faster. But grieve for as long as you need to. It is a natural process. Eventually you will feel less sad.

Losing a pet is just like losing a beloved family member. Our pets are our family. It takes time to get over your grief. 16 years is a long time to spend with a pet or even a family member. I was going to suggest writing a letter to your dog, telling him how much he meant to you. Share special memories with him, just like he is a friend you are writing to, share your thoughts, your grief, your love. I have found that this can be very therapeutic. Allow your other pet to help you thru this. She is grieving too, I am sure. If you can do so, write a poam to him, about him. Talk to others about him who understand. Please tell me more about him.

I have had to go though the same thing as you several times and I have found that what helps me is to move on with the next dog, non dog people can never understand that they are just as much kin as a child.When I put Vinnie down it was like putting my child down, but I knew it was better for him and the same with all the others.I can still feel it and hope to feel it the rest of my life. I take soles that in each and every case it was for them. Yes time helps with the grief, remember the good things.Just writing this is hard...It's been years and I still miss them.If you want to talk just drop me a line.